Hubby saw email about his family


We have a beautiful family life -my little daughter, husband and myself. MY husband is gem of a man and I am so happy to have him as my life partner. But as most of the girls, I find it quiet difficult to get along with my in-laws. Recently some behavior from them pissed me off totally and send a very bad email to my sister bitching about them.Accidentally my husband happened to see the mail.Being an understanding man , he totally understands why I was pissed off with the situation and he also agreed that I am at the right side.

However, being a sincere son, he was shocked to see the bad language I used against them in the email and he is totally shattered.He is also upset with the fact that I portrayed his parents as terrible people to the rest of my family . I also understand where he comes from and when I think about it , I shouldn’t have mailed my sister . Seeing it was my mistake , I apologised to him. I saw him crying for the first time in our 6 year relationship. He is telling me , that he lost his complete trust in me . I cannot blame him.Becoz now he thinks, whatever happened in his family, I been telling to my family without keeping any secret , which is not the case. But now I am in a position where I cant prove him wrong, as he is baselining everything to that email

I love him a lot and I know he too…thats why he is shattered this much. he is not even talking to me properly.I want to win him back. Please help me if there is something I can do about this.


I said….

Oh gosh! Well, no point in crying over spilled milk, I guess….but whats written to sisters should always be kept very private. Anyway, what’s done is done.

So now, just keep a low profile about this for now. You have already apologised- you can do it some more when the need arises. In the meanwhile try and restore as much normalcy as you can and hope that things go back to the way they were soon. It may take some time, but it will happen, don’t worry.

You can put forward your defense ( I love your folks? your sister/ your dog/ your sofa) like my own…etc…and remind him of the times you have been a good daughter in law…things like that. Don’t worry. It’ll be OK soon.

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